I had planned on a long, full day in the lab. But the argon tank is empty (fascinating, no?) so I can't run anything. So instead? I'll update.
I sometimes forget that this blog is as much about documenting MJ's life as it is an outlet and soapbox for me. And you know what? I haven't done much updating lately.
Yesterday, MJ sort of crawled. I'm not sure if it counts yet, but she's finally able to go forward. For months now she has been scooting backward. Back in February DH made a bet that it would happen within a week. And you know what? It didn't. Man, I really should have bet money on that one. And it is good. I always said I'd be perfectly content if she was a late crawler, but in the past several weeks her grumpiness has been grumpier than my grumpiness (meaning: very grumpy). She has been so frustrated by her inability to get at what she wants, but now that she can move in the direction she wants she's less grumpy. She's still slow at getting where she wants to go, but she can manage it.
And so, I am trying to become cleaner. It is very, very hard. As a working mama I have accepted that our house will be chaotic. But now, I can't even do that. Because chaos=not baby proofed. And she loves to lick everything: the stool, the heating grate, my laptop, DH's shoe... I realize these things won't kill her, and once she discovers something's not food she generally leaves it alone (kind of like the dog.) Such as grass: at first she tried to eat it, but after realizing that even broccoli tasted better she became content to just play with it. And by play with it, I mean rip out all the grass in her tiny-12-inch-arm-radius. So we have little circles of torn out grass in the yard, (crop circles? aliens?) but at least she's learning to like the outdoors, no?
In other baby news, she is a great eater. Here is our list of things she will happily eat: peas, carrots, butternut squash, zucchini, sweet potatos, parsnips, green beans, avocado, bananas, and BROCCOLI! (note: blogger wants me to add an "e" to "potatos" but I resisted.) Broccoli is a huge coup for me, because I hate it. In fact, I'm a bit of a picky eater (though SO much better than I used to be). And so I have made it a goal to have her become a good eater early on. As part of this goal, I have been making her baby food, which allows more texture and variety than what you can find in the jarred baby food. My Mom (generously) bought us the Beaba Babycook. It's spendy, I'm not going to lie. And probably not necessary, but it does make the whole process much easier. I can make a batch while I'm making dinner, and it's so whip!bang!boom! done. Furthermore, unlike most grinders out there (we have the magic bullet) you have more control on how well ground you make the food. It's not all or nothing, so I've been able to gradually make her food more lumpy.
And it makes me feel good. Now that I'm not breastfeeding, I feel like this is one small thing I can do to make sure she eats well. So I send her with food everyday to daycare, rather than relying on the food they provide. And (one of the many reasons I LOVE our daycare) they don't act like I'm putting them out by slightly complicating their feeding routine. They are always very good about honoring the requests of the parents. We haven't introduced many fruits yet, largely because we haven't had to. I really wanted her to eat veggies first, so that she didn't yet know there are tastier foods out there. We added (lots of) formula and rice cereal in the beginning in order to make them more palatable, then gradually reduced it until now she just eats straight veggies.