In the spring, I did a Week in the Life as inspired by Navigating the Mothership. I spent that entire week pondering a brand new, very big secret, that I haven’t yet shared on here. It turns out, I’m pregnant with our third kid.
There you have it. Every day, tops in my mind was the fact that I had just found out I was pregnant, and could not wrap my head around it. This time, I can’t even hide it, so I may as well as get it out there. In fact, we find out tomorrow whether it’s a boy or girl. So more to come.
Anyway. This “Day in the Life” took place on Thursday, August 1st. Greta is 1 year and 3 days old. MJ is almost 4. And I am 19 weeks pregnant.
5:00 a.m. Greta wakes up and Hubs gives her a bottle of milk. We have just moved Greta into MJ’s room and it has been a struggle for them to not wake each other up in the early morning. They do fine at night, even if one wakes up crying, the other sleeps through it. But mornings are a struggle. Greta is still in a Pack and Play while we decide if we are fully committed to this idea. Although we have a 4-bedroom house, we would like to keep one room for guests because the Grandma’s come to visit so much. But is it worth all the poor sleep in the meantime? We’ll have to see.
6:00 a.m. MJ wakes up. We shuffle her upstairs to the family room in hopes she doesn’t wake up Greta, and this morning it works, because G doesn’t wake up until 8:00 a.m.
8:00 a.m. The hubs is apparently trying to be super husband today. Does he know this will be my day in the life? He gets up and changes Greta’s poopy diaper. Sleeping this late is a rare treat around these parts. I remember my Mom always telling me that once I had kids I would have trouble sleeping in, but that has not been the case for me. I can still sleep in like a champ when given the opportunity.
8:15 a.m. I start making muffins. I had decided to do this the previous evening, because we just got back from a week away and it feels like we have nothing nutritious in the house. I recently got the Weelicious cookbook and settle on the sweet potato muffins. But the kids are STARVING and grumpy and Vito’s yapping about something. I am feeling super grumpy and am not dealing well. I continue to feel constantly overwhelmed by these kids, even when I get small breaks. But the hubs comes downstairs and we get five minutes to chat which helps me feel more sane and grounded. I finish the muffins, get them in the oven, tide Greta over with something in the mean time and pour some coffee.
The hubs snapped this before he left for work. MJ ready to bake muffins.
9:00 Muffins come out. While they cool I retreat to the bathroom, only 5 feet away, for 5 minutes of peace. It’s the only place they will let me have some quiet. I read a post about parenting and how everyone feels overwhelmed but to enjoy it anyway, which makes me feel immensely better. Sometimes cheesy re-posts are all I need to hear.
9:15 a.m. MJ sees me scribbling notes about my day, and she is bummed that “Mom and Dad can write better than me.” I explain the value of practicing and that I didn’t used to know how to write. We sit down to eat muffins. They are quite tasty and not too sweet. Exactly what I had hoped for. After we all finish eating I get G out of the high chair and the girls play in the living room.
"Mom, I’m very dehydrated right now. Can I have something dehydrated to drink?" I love when she picks up these big words but still gets them a little confused. I manage to spill half a jug of iced coffee in the fridge while I’m getting her milk. Days with kids are really just moving from one mess to another.
9:25 a.m. Time to get dressed. Any time we have to move a floor I swear we have to add 10 minutes to the time one would expect. I let Greta crawl up the stairs, one of her favorite activities. If she catches sight of the gate to the stairs open, she takes off across the room to race up the stairs. She’s pretty good at climbing them, but sometimes gets distracted and doesn’t pay attention to where she’s at, so I still get nervous. Overall, she is SO much happier than she has been; I’m not sure if it’s teething, or sleep, or what, but she’s been such a grump.
The challenge in trying to get ready in the morning….
I accidentally deleted the non-blurry one when trying to make space on my phone. Looking pretty pregnant, and very momish.
What MJ looks like when she’s “ready”. She went for a lot of accessories.
9:50 a.m. Back downstairs. We’re getting ready to walk to the Red Balloon book shop and I had hoped to stop to pick up my prescription on the way. It looks like I may still have time? But impossible to say until we’re out of the house and the kids are in the stroller.
Greta, happy as a clam, waiting patiently for us to depart.
10:05 a.m. Finally on our way. Probably not time to stop, but we’ll stop after. Greta is so in love with walks, that if she even catches sight of me pulling the stroller out she goes nuts. Not a peep of protest from her while we walk. On our way, we pass by a woman with a walker who says “Looks like you’ve got your hands full”. I get this comment so much now. Do I really look that overwhelmed all the time? Probably.
10:15 a.m. We arrive at the bookstore. I think we came here during my last two day in the life’s as well, must be something I only do quarterly as I know I haven’t been in months. There is a piano sitting outside that MJ pounds away on, and I try to delete some photos from my phone. Keeping space on my phone is a constant struggle.
Happy for noisemaking that occurs outside the confines of our house.
10:30 a.m. Story time starts. The lady leading story time has lost her voice and is whispering. It is possibly the worst story time I’ve ever been to. I would think one of the women working behind the counter would take over but instead they let her struggle through. Greta doesn’t sit still for a single instant during the entire story time. She insists on going up and down the two stairs, climbing around and pulling books off the shelves, spinning the standing book rack, and generally causing chaos. She even crawls up and tries to take the story ladies puppet. Ugh. I remember MJ being crazy like this, too, but I though with Greta we might escape it. Also, MJ would at least sit down for short periods.
Not remotely interested in story time. But the rest was pretty cool, apparently.
11:05 a.m. Get the girls back in the stroller. Already feel worn out and the day is not half done.
11:15 a.m. Arrive at CVS to pick up my thyroid medicine. It is apparently not ready, so I use this a weak excuse to stop at the coffee shop next door for treats. I fear I’ve acquainted MJ too deeply with coffee shop treats. We get smoothies, pick up my medicine and head home. I am tired, and the very small hill feels like a lot to push my 55 lbs of kids up
11:40 a.m. Home. Greta fell asleep in the stroller, so I move her upstairs, but put her in her old room. I’m not sure why. I come back downstairs to bring the stroller inside and run into my neighbor, who I’ll be seeing tonight at our monthly happy hour. She asks if I have any news to share. I smile and say that I figure it’s not really news at this point. She says she promised herself never to ask because she got it wrong once, which I silently find very funny because she was the first one to ask me if I was pregnant with Greta, at only 10 weeks. But it was New Years, so perhaps she was intoxicated and her judgement was off. Anyway. I have been both times, so no insult.
11:50 a.m. MJ is not hungry for lunch because of our pre-lunch treat. Oy. I let her watch the iPad since Greta is sleeping, and I sit down to a very nutritionally suspect lunch of crackers and cheese, mainly because I want to spend G’s nap time sitting and not cooking. This pregnancy is really starting to suck my energy. While eating, Iread Navigating the Mothership’s announcement. I cry at her video. I never watch videos on other people’s blogs, but this time I do and of course I cry. I spend the rest of Greta’s nap time working on some blog stuff and some other computer stuff. Basically, I just rest, because I have learned I need to rest when Greta rests rather than scurrying to get things done. If I don’t, I am totally out of energy for the end of the day when the kids are being mini-tyrants and I have no patience.
My typical lunch time scene. Struggling to keep MJ sitting down, you’d think this was a new concept for her.
1:15 p.m. G wakes up. My day starts again. I rouse MJ from the iPad, change a dirty diaper and make PB&J for the girls. MJ would subsist entirely off PB&J if I let her. I let her have it almost every day for lunch, knowing full well that once she starts back to school she can’t take nuts in. So maybe she’ll grow tired of it by then. Doubtful, though. While the girls are eating, I duck downstairs to switch clothes over and do some dishes. Greta is obsessed with the dishwasher and I can only have it open when she’s not crawling around. A problem I never had with MJ since we didn’t have a dishwasher when she was this age. We finish off sandwiches with some frozen peas. What a … nutritional (?) lunch. The girls spend much of lunch making each other laugh, and I am so glad they like each other so much. I am also so glad they have gotten to have this time together before MJ starts off to school.
The girls playing “nicely”.
Greta attacking MJ. A lot more of this these days, but she loves it.
And now MJ teaching Greta how to walk. They go pretty fast together.
2:25 p.m. It’s absolutely beautiful outside. Like, perfect weather. Although the extended forecast continues to look good, it’s hard not to feel the need to take advantage, so I decide to go for a walk. But since Greta has been trying to take walking toys around our house and keeps running into walls, I decide we’ll let her practice walking down the sidewalk. MJ wants to take her scooter, but we can’t find her helmet and she throws a tantrum.
2:55 p.m. Finally, MJ decided it will suffice if she can push a stroller with a baby down the block. So both girls have strollers with babies and we head out. They are quite the adorable sight. I have to readjust Greta’s direction often, and she stops every time she hears a noise to look around. Every house with steps she tops and tries to climb, if I let her. Half way through, she gets pretty tired so I carry her and MJ helps push both strollers. At one point we realize we can put Greta in hers and MJ can push it. It’s adorable, though decidedly not very safe, but MJ is good about pushing her slowly.
God they’re cute.
Checking out an apartment building. What’s inside?
Wants to be just like her sister.
Babies having babies.
3:20 p.m. Back home. I decide our outings are done for now. I’m beat. Pregnancy sucks the life out of me. We play in the living room, and then in the back yard. Greta is obsessed with putting things inside things. MJ is obsessed with coloring, and designing elaborate schemes. We have a snack… blueberries and yogurt. I enjoy the girls so much more when I don’t try to accomplish anything.
MJ is excited to learn “hand sewing”. The details are unimportant, apparently.
Playing is exhausting. I totally agree.
4:15 p.m. MJ has T-Ball soon and so we need to start getting ready. I ask her to pick up her toys and she throws a tantrum. I get mad. I am tired and beyond fed up. She gets sent to her room and I end up putting several toys downstairs. The deal we have is that if she won’t pick things up, she can’t play with them. It keeps my life easier and our house less cluttered and has generally worked well. Mostly, she’s tired because she got up so freaking early.
4:30 p.m. Dad comes home. Him and the girls eat dinner. I made a pretty terrible salad that no one is excited about, so we scrounge together some things from the fridge. I ask how he’d feel about taking the girls by himself to T-ball. He’s not terribly excited about it, but I’m just so beat and never get time to myself. He decides he wants to bike with them there, so we scurry around trying to get everything together. Can’t find MJ’s team shirt. Oh well.
5:22 p.m. Dad is off. I sit down. My legs are exhausted. I play Candy Crush on my phone, which I am stupidly hooked on.
5:40 p.m. I take a shower. I test the upstairs shower, which we just got fixed (it was leaking) and enjoy the new (to us) shower. It’s been broken for a year-and-a-half. We expected a huge repair bill, but it was only $140. Probably should have gotten that fixed earlier. I spend more time than usual getting ready, mainly because I can. The house is quiet, and sometimes it’s nice to actually look nice. My hair has been a train wreck of late and I experiment with it.
Yep, definitely pregnant.
6:15 p.m. I am ready. I sit on the front porch, enjoying the peace.
6:45 p.m. I hear some crying, and it sounds like Greta, but I didn’t think they were home. There are babies in two surrounding houses so I assume it must be one of them. But husband comes outside a few minutes later, and we discuss finding a baby sitter for a meeting we have with our financial planner. There was mis-communication and we end up having to call on a friend of ours. MJ comes outside with a box to turn into a spaceship. I realize she dumped out all my maternity clothes to use the box, and I get mad, but hubs points out that I should not. I don’t deal well with these things, I really need to do better. We sit on the front porch, MJ coloring her spaceship, and enjoy the evening.
When forced to, I guess I can part with my cardboard box for the sake of a spaceship.
7:25 p.m. Walk down to my neighbors house to meet up for our monthly happy hour. I haven’t made it to one in a very long time, it’s nice to see them. We decide on a last minute change of plans, and instead of heading to a restaurant hang out on our neighbors front porch. We scurry to let everyone know, which is tough because there were a lot of “Maybe” responses. I like hanging out with these women because all of them have older kids. It’s nice to talk about what the future will be like, hear about schools and generally be around women who have been doing this a bit longer than I have.
10:15 p.m. Head home. Lovely evening, lots of mosquito bites.